Law of Attraction

Tips to make the law of attraction work in your favor.

The Worst Advice For Happiness

Happiness Requires Deliberate Action “Don’t look back because that’s not the direction you’re going”.  Of all of the tips for happiness, this is the worst.  How many times have you indulged the memes and the gurus encouraging you to cut ties to your past? It’s comforting to believe that there’s no value in experiences that…

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Turn Jealousy Into Inspiration

Green With Envy In school, there was a beautiful girl named Regina, who I spent years being jealous of. Her long flowing hair, delicate features, and trendy clothes put my curly mullet, awkward features, and old lady wardrobe to shame. We’ve all had a few Reginas in our lives. The secret is that you can…

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Better Than Vision Boards

What Could be Better Than a Vision Board? In my post Why Vision Boards Are Time Wasters, I make a case for why I believe vision boards are the wrong way to go for inspiration. That’s not to say that you’re doing something wrong if you have or want to create a vision board, but…

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Self-Talk For Success

Our Self-Talk Needs a Makeover “You’re not smart enough to get promoted,” “You’re too old to get in shape,” “You’re too young to start a business,” “You’ll never find love at that size”…  Don’t you hate how that negative self-talk jumps out when you take on something new (finally ready to bet on yourself)? It knows…

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New Year’s Resolutions Worth Keeping

New Year’s Resolutions My last twenty new year’s resolutions have included the ambitious goal of achieving six-pack abs.  At 41, I’m no closer to those abs, than a BRAVO Real Housewife is to being filler-free.  Each new year we enthusiastically set out to hit one or more targets.  According to an article in the NY…

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Why Vision Boards Are a Time Waster

Your Best Life, in Images Vision boards are often a first step in manifesting abundance or reaching a goal.  They’re visuals of how we believe our best life should look and feel.  I remember amassing a bedroom of magazines, with pictures I clipped for random inspiration.  It was a fun activity, but thinking back on…

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Should You Be the Bigger Person?

Be the Bigger Person? We’re always told to “be the bigger person,” in the face of confrontation.  It shows class, maturity, and self-control (all admirable traits).  But, for all of the sense, and good intent in that school of thought, there’s an ugly truth.  There are times when being the bigger person, feels more like…

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Fall in Love With Yourself This Fall

The Perfect Backdrop, For Falling in Love With Yourself There’s nothing like a change in seasons, to stimulate the desire for positive life changes.  Fall is my favorite season for so many reasons.  The sun still warms your skin during the days (which are still long enough to enjoy).  Fall clothing and decor, offer colors…

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