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Get His Attention, and Keep Him Chasing You

Get His Attention by Tapping Into Your Inner Cat

I’m guilty of bending over backward for my significant others (despite their taking advantage of that desire to please).  With a healthy dose of self-awareness, I broke that nasty fourteen-year pattern (going from doormat to Goddess).   Recently, a rather funny “AHAAA” moment hit me. 

The turning point in my ability to grab the attention of guys I liked, came when I began acting like my lovingly detached cat, and less like my mushy, smothering dog.  Not one to hoard my useful lessons for myself. Here’s how to get his attention and keep him chasing after you. [Read more…] about Get His Attention, and Keep Him Chasing You

Closure After a Breakup

Closure After a Breakup?

The idea of getting closure is often a knee-jerk reaction, post-breakup.  Getting over a breakup is one of those things we’re usually not prepared for ahead of time.  The person on the receiving end often can’t resist a search and rescue mission for closure. 

We convince ourselves that before we can move forward, the “dumper” must bestow this parting gift upon us.  The closure is a tempting life vest when you’re sinking in emotions that are over your head, but the search for closure after being dumped is often pointless. 

Before spending time haunting your ex like ghosts of Christmas past, ask yourself these three questions before you look for closure after a breakup. [Read more…] about Closure After a Breakup

Staying in Toxic Relationships

The Silver Lining in my Toxic Relationship

Writing about a past relationship, I recalled a universal false truth that held me in my eleven-year toxic high school relationship, and the superpower that it awakened.  Of all people, I have my cheating ex to thank for my superpower revealing itself. 

In this post, I’ll share the power my toxic relationship awakened, (a power you have right now).  My story also exposes a relationship lie, which is often the cause for us staying in toxic relationships. [Read more…] about Staying in Toxic Relationships

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